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Shame and Chardonnay: Using food and drink to cope.

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Posted on May 25, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

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So. Today is national wine day or something, because my newsfeed is filled, more than usual, with memes like this: Here is a FAR TOO COMMON NOT TO WRITE ABOUT scenario: Woman (yes, usually female, but occasionally male) comes into … Continue reading →

Posted in adults, depression, Uncategorized | 2 Replies

When you just don’t agree with your partner.

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Posted on May 20, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

Often goes the scene on the couples therapy couch: He should just suck it up and attend my mother’s birthday dinner since it means so much to me… SHE should stop spending so much money on shoes since it means … Continue reading →

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3 weird things to do when you’re in a slump.

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Posted on May 17, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

“Slump.” It’s not a clinical term, but who wants to read an article about “anhedonia“? One of the most common topics of therapy is lack of motivation. Sometimes a “slump” is born from the paralyzing anxiety of agoraphobia (think Joan … Continue reading →

Posted in adhd, adults, anxiety, bipolar disorder, depression, Uncategorized | 1 Reply

The paranoid psychologist and the sociopathic kid.

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Posted on May 4, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

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“I wanna be a psychopathic murderer when I grow up because I enjoy the power and adrenaline that surges through me when I think about taking a human life.” This is what I heard the seven year old kid on … Continue reading →

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The first question to ask if you want something to change.

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Posted on April 2, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

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I recently read this book on raising boys. Like any book, it had some stuff I agreed with and some stuff I didn’t (It’s as if the author and I were too different people! -a quote stolen from a blog … Continue reading →

Posted in adults, parenting, Uncategorized | 7 Replies

Four things parents brag about that could really be anxiety….

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Posted on March 25, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

Excuse the bitchy title. I am not above appealing to parental curiosity and fear for some clicks. But more importantly, I really think it’s important to broadcast the not-so-well-known signs of pediatric anxiety to as many parents as possible. Most … Continue reading →

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The surprising reason people come to therapy.

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Posted on March 16, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

Meghan sat upright in the big, cushiony sofa with her hands clasped in her lap. It was our sixth session together, but she still bristled when I turned the conversation to anything besides the weather. To be sure, she had … Continue reading →

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Empathy without boundaries is not empathy.

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Posted on March 13, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

A “boundary” is a divide between you and another person. It is you owning your behaviors and feelings and others owning theirs. It is knowing and asserting your own perspectives and needs and allowing others to know and assert theirs. … Continue reading →

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Accept. (The unchangeable crappy people and circumstances.)

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Posted on March 7, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

I recently listened to a REBT therapist on the radio flounder with an upset woman: “If you are angry that your friend called you a bitch to your face, access your BELIEF about that friend’s behavior. It is your BELIEF … Continue reading →

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My kid keeps lying! What do I do?

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Posted on February 26, 2016 by On the Yellow Couch

Here’s a question I often hear from the parents of my kid patients: What do I do about my kid’s constant lying? 99% of the time, here are the things I explain*: I hear this a LOT from parents of … Continue reading →

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Meet Dr. Shiels

Angelica Shiels is a licensed clinical psychologist practicing in the Baltimore-Annapolis-DC area. She sees adults, couples, teens, and kids. Dr. Shiels is also a wife and a mother of three boys. When she isn't ninja-fighting, catching frogs, or cleaning messes around the toilet, she enjoys spending time on her own couch, which she wishes was yellow, but is actually brown and falling apart on account of three milk-spilling ninjas.

Dr. Shiels really enjoys her job outside of the house, where kids, teens, adults, and couples can sit on a nice leather couch where no gogurt is ever squeezed.

Dr. Shiels is the co-author of two children's self-help books and her writing has been featured on Psych Central, Lifehack, Sammiches and Psych Meds, Reality Moms, BonBon Break, Scary Mommy, Blunt Moms, Mamapedia, and others.
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